How to Attract a man
I remember my first job. There was this gorgeous guy working their the
only problem was I had never talked to him but I knew I wanted him. Every
day I wore my most revealing clothes, flashed my legs whenever he was
about, and caked my face in make up. I did this for two months without
even talking to him and he didn’t even notice me. Then one day I thought
all my birthdays had come at once. Here I was standing in the lift with
him. The next thing I did I will never forget until the day I die. I jumped
up at him and kissed him full blown on the lips. The poor bloke nearly
had a heart attack. I told him I had been after him for ages but that
he hadn’t even noticed me. He exploded shouting that he had seen me and
thought that I had been acting like a tart and that he was married but
even if he wasn’t I wouldn’t stand a chance. Well I slapped him for the
insult, walked out and never returned. This funny incident taught me a
valuable lesson just be yourself (Oh and find out if he’s married). Here
are a few pointers to keep in mind when trying to attract a man.
The man has to know that you exist. Say you have been working in the same
office as the guy for a while and he hasn’t noticed you the chances are
he has no interest in you.
Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself
and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will
also notice that more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also a big issue. If he sees you when you are at your worst
then he will not want to look a second time.
Give him a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that
sticks to his senses, soft clothes that he yearns to touch, and a smile
that he can't get out of his mind.
Flirt with him.
Make him feel important. Listen to what he says, laugh at his jokes no
matter how lame they are, and take an interest in his interests.
Don’t try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false
idol and will not want to know you when he sees the real you.
Be vulnerable. Let down the armor. Let men do things for you then thank
them for their help.
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